The other side of the tunnel

Letting go of something that doesn't meet your standards can be incredibly difficult. It can leave you feeling empty and alone, wondering if you made the right decision. But sometimes, you have to let go of what's comfortable in order to make room for something better.

It's important to remember what we bring to the table and how much we deserve. We shouldn't be afraid to leave a situation that doesn't align with our values and goals. When we choose ourselves and leave behind what no longer serves us, we make space for something better to come into our lives.

Of course, the healing journey after letting go can still be challenging. It's natural to feel sadness, grief, and uncertainty during this time. But it's important to remember that healing is not a linear process. There will be ups and downs, and that's okay. It's okay to take the time you need to heal, and to reach out for support if you need it.

Leaving a situation that doesn't meet our standards is an act of self-love. It's choosing ourselves and our happiness over something that is holding us back. And when we make that choice, we open ourselves up to the possibility of finding something better—something that aligns with our values and brings us joy.

When you finally find something better—something that meets your standards and makes you truly happy—it's important to celebrate that achievement. Take pride in the fact that you chose yourself, and that you were brave enough to leave something behind that no longer served you.

Finally, letting go of anything that does not fulfil our expectations is a profound act of self-love. It's about acknowledging our worth and prioritising ourselves and our fulfilment over everything else. It might be a challenging path, but when we find something better, we can look back with gratitude, knowing that we were brave enough to choose ourselves.

I know I am.