Friendships

In our twenties, we often focus heavily on finding the right romantic partner, sometimes overlooking the incredible stability our friendships offer. It's strange because our friends are the ones who've been with us through our teenage years, the people we turn to in tough times, sharing things we might not tell anyone else.

My closest friend and I have been inseparable for about six years now. Our friendship didn’t start on a specific day; it just grew from knowing each other to becoming an integral part of each other’s lives. We met in middle school and became really close during high school. Even though we’ve been 600 kilometers apart during university, our bond only grew stronger. I've learned that all relationships, whether romantic or not, need effort to thrive.

My friend and I make it a daily habit to check in with each other, even if it's just a quick call or text. Showing interest and letting someone know you’re eager to talk can mean a lot. We take our friendship seriously by planning hangouts, even if it’s just to watch a movie. It’s our way of showing how much our friendship means to us.

If you feel any of your connections lack depth, treat them like new relationships. Show genuine interest in their lives, spend quality time together, and be caring and thoughtful, just as you'd want someone to be with you.

I’m incredibly grateful for my dearest friend. She’s been a constant support, someone I can always count on. Knowing she trusts me and shares her life with me is something I cherish deeply. (Thank you Sophie!)

Friendships, like any relationship, need attention and care. By valuing these connections, we not only honour our bonds but also enrich our lives with invaluable support.